Love, Lust, and Laughter

Love Lust And Laughter – 08.25.15

Dr. Susan Block author of “THE BONOBO WAY – The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure” (www.BonoboWay.com) returned to the program. Dr. Suzy and Dr. Diana focused on the ways to release one’s inner bonobo. (Marilyn Monroe’s quote fits: “Sex is part of nature. I go along with nature.”) The author asks, What do these great apes know about sex, war and the rest of life that we don’t? The bonobos embrace sexual pleasure, and along the way exhibit bisexuality, female solidarity, deep compassion, curiosity, generosity, reciprocity, swinging, combining food with sex – infusing play into everything they do. It would seem that bonobos are really smart – yet sexy and fun! Part 1 of this show is archived, July 28^th… and we will do a Part 3 very soon. Please listen and learn – Dr. Suzy is brilliant!

Love Lust And Laughter – 08.18.15

Bradley Coates, Esq., (www.CoatesandFrey.com) returned to the program. He is the author of “DIVORCE with DECENCY” – 4^TH Edition. To wed or not to wed…the pros and the cons was the focus of the discussion. The best thing about Brad’s book is that its full of straight forward insights about the winds of social change. Brad and Dr. Diana discussed the cons of remarriage – including the fact that many remarry various versions of their former mate, not having done a good “emotional divorce.” Sex may be better in a remarriage in that folks are paying more attention. Sex is the second language of behavior and it’s important to pay attention to its message! We also explored the big question, “Does sex really make you happier?” Tune-in for some answers!

Love Lust And Laughter – 08.11.15

Dr. Stephanie Buehler psychologist, sex therapist and author – www.TheBuehlerInstitute.com – and Dr. Diana spoke about what they’ve learned as Sex Therapists. Much of people’s dissatisfactions about sex come from misinformation, negative attitudes, anxiety, poor communication and unrealistic expectations. The Buehler Institute offers post-grad training programs for therapists who want training in sex therapy. Dr. Stephanie also spoke bout transgender health and Caitlyn Jenner – mentioning the excellent film by Dr. Mark Schoen “Trans” – www.TranstheMovie.com. Dr. Stephanie will soon be working with Hoag Hospital addressing pelvic pain issues for women and men. There is physical help from pelvic floor PT’s, but stress and mental anguish can contribute as well. The collaborative approach is so important!

Love Lust And Laughter – 08.04.15

Pleasure and passion is a sign of health – one of the vital signs, like your pulse rate. Dr Ava Cadell – www.sexpert.com – and Dr. Diana discussed the health benefits of sex. The latter include (all research based): a longer life, improved heart health, pain relief, better sleep, reduced stress, an improved immune system, and gains in your appearance and relationship. One female sexual health device shown on Dr. Ava’s website sexpert.com is the INTENSITY. Please go to www.pourmoi.com where you will find a device that definitely has pleasure with a purpose! Listeners may access a 50% off with the PROMO code 50free. The male sexual health device discussed was the PRIVATE GYM. Listeners can get this at 20% off with the PROMO codesexpert20. Dr. Diana’s interview with Dr. Ava reflected her knowledge and intelligence; indeed, she is the author of nine books! Discovering pleasure with a partner is like pouring cement into a foundation. Physical touch that leads to ecstatic release not only releases hormones and endorphins that promote health and longevity, but also serve as the basis of biological bonding.  

Love Lust And Laughter – 07.28.15

Dr. Susan Block author of “THE BONOBO WAY – The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure” and Dr. Diana enjoyed a lively interview. Her book is written in a provocative, humorous and engaging style that makes science fun and ecology erotic! Dr. Suzy weaves stories, studies, theories and fantasies into a practical path of action so that one can release one’s “inner bonobo.” (Even more on the latter when we do Part 2.) What do bonobos know about sex, war and the rest of life that we don’t? We spoke about some of those things: they have lots of sex; they never kill each other; they empower females; they stay young longer; and they live in peace through pleasure. Your human love life might be improved by listening to this program and getting Dr. Block’s book at www.TheBonoboWayBook.com. Indeed, she has a new understanding of how to enhance our intimate relationships!

Love Lust And Laughter - 07.21.15

Tami Meraglia, MD, is a physician with a passion: to help women take charge of their own hormone health and happiness!  Dr. Tami is double board certified in integrative and natural/aesthetic medicine. Her recently published book “The Hormone Secret – discover Effortless Weight Loss and Renewed Energy in just 30 Days”  is getting lots of media attention. By going to her website www.DrTami.comyou will learn about her holistic approach – so very necessary in a time when hormone levels decrease 30 to 50% between the ages of 20 and 40 alone. Stress and the inflammation it creates is a huge factor… Women are exhausted. Dr. Tami focuses on testosterone, and a healthy dosage helps women slim down, improves their mood, lowers the risk of cardiac disease, increases energy and libido, prevents osteoporosis, enhances skin tone and texture, and may even prevent cognitive decline. (Full disclosure: I’ve been on BHRT for many years and especially love my testosterone replacement!) Dr. Tami reveals that more than 90% of women over age 45 suffer from low testosterone levels. Please listen to this program – you will be informed and perhaps inspired!

Love Lust And Laughter - 05.26.15

Dr. Lori Buckley – www.DrLoriBuckley.com – returned to the program. Her book is “21 Decisions for Great Sex & a Happy Relationship” and can be purchased on AMAZON. Dr. Diana and Dr. Lori co-narrated GREAT SEX for A LIFETIME, volumes 1 & 2 available on www.BetterSex.com. For this edition of “Love, Lust & Laughter,” the focus was on performance and pleasure anxiety. We explored why folks resist sexual pleasure.  Overwhelmed by sexual excitement, they may have difficulty relaxing and giving up control. They may be performance driven rather than experience drawn. Being in control may help folks feel safer, less vulnerable; yet, surrendering to sex can create so much more emotional and physical intimacy (as well as more orgasms)!  Listen to this show for illumination around these issues!  

Love Lust And Laughter - 05.12.15

David Steinberg author of “This Thing We Call Sex” returned to the program. Part 1 was on April 14th – so please listen to the archived version. David’s core message is that sex is important for everyone…a treasure to be celebrated, and a path to self-knowledge.  Dr. Diana and David first discussed MONOGAMY. Quoting Oscar Wilde: “Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.” Perhaps we confuse love with lust – even though the two are as distinctly different as red wine and blue cheese! Myths about monogamy: people in open relationships have psychological problems. Because open relationships require well-developed communication skills, and a high level of self-awareness, research has shown they are no more or less dysfunctional. EROTIC IMAGES and David’s fine art erotic photography were explored. Steinberg is a word person…and then he discovered the visual world: photographing people enjoying the emotional, joyful connection as they were sexual! You may learn more by going to www.DavidSteinberg.us 

Love Lust And Laughter - 05.05.15

Dr. Dudley Danoff, M.D., known for his wisdom and wit, discussedlifeandlove both good to enjoy to the fullest! Dr. D. is a board-certified urologist who for years has helped couples achieve the emotional intimacy and physical satisfaction they desire. His book PENIS POWER The Ultimate Guide to Male Sexual Healthacknowledges women too in his Womens Top 10 Complaints which include a husband without sexual skills. Dr. Diana asked, Why is it that so many people are still suffering from a lack of sexual fulfillment? Anyone can learn techniques, but technique alone will not make him or her a good lover. Dr. Danoff knows that when a man satisfies a woman, he frees her from harboring negative feelings such as frustration, disappointment and anger. He needs to communicate and appreciate! His M.O. is inspirational: The more you give of yourself, the more you get in return. Listen to the program to get more!www.PenisPowerBook.com

Love Lust And Laughter - 04.28.15

Bradley Coates, Esq., returned to the program. His book “DIVORCE with DECENCY – The Complete How To Handbook and Survivor’s Guide to the Legal, Emotional, Economic, and Social Issues” is in its Fourth Edition. Brad and Dr. Diana discussed the basic differences between men and women and its impact on their relationships. Researchers are discovering that when we talk, fight, flirt, or even exchange a moment’s glance with our fellow humans, we physically shape one another’s brains. Brad’s book looks at the male & female differences: mentally, in terms of values, communication, and sexually. Please listen. You will enhance your existing relationship – or, perhaps, prevent a divorce!