Jonas Radvik is the guest. He specializes in sexual addiction work. Formerly, he was with the Swedish Ballet Academy as a dancer and choreographer; so, he knows a lot about dance as therapy. He shares his story and his own recovery. He got his life back!

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Jonas returns for Part 2. Bryan Brewer, a business consultant and close friend of Diana’s, joins the discussion. Both Jonas and Bryan are experts in embodiment and mindfulness. These highly distinguished states can lead to more emotional and physical intimacy. Intimacy is discussed in the second half of the show, and there are not 10 easy steps. Indeed, it is a more evolved process!

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Dr. Paul Joannides is the author of GUIDE TO GETTING IT ON! His sex guide is in its 6th edition and has been published in 12 languages. The reviews are outstanding! For example, ROLLING STONE MAGAZINE declared, “The only sex manual you’ll ever need!” And, the INTERNATIONAL JOURNAL OF HUMAN RELATIONS said, “A world-class sex manual. Whoever you are and however much sexual experience you’ve had, you will benefit from reading this book. I can’t recommend it too highly.” Listen to Part 1 with Dr. Paul. He’s fascinating, informative, and very thoughtful. He lectures widely in medical schools and universities – but we have him for an hour. Tune in next week for another hour!

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Dr. Paul Joannides, Part 2.  Among the many topics discussed were erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, and painful intercourse.  An 85 year-old listener called in with a question and won a copy of GUIDE TO GETTING IT ON!  Good for him!

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Lou Paget returned for her first show in 2011 the day after she spoke to UCLA’s medical students.  Dr. Diana and Lou talked about the TROJAN/Indiana University Study, sex addiction, a panel for Warriors, and yoga for PTSD – among other scintillating topics!

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Dr. Patti Britton and Dr. Robert Dunlap discussed their on-line training for www.SexCoachU.com – including the course’s content, why it is so important, and the profiles of some students.  What is the difference between sex therapy and sex coaching?  The MEBES model was reviewed.

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Dr. Robert Dunlap is a renowned film maker.  Dr. Diana and Dr. Robert discussed his award-winning documentary: Xavier Hollander, The Happy Hooker: Portrait of a Sexual Revolutionary by this director and clinical sexologist.  Many agree that “Xie” did seem like a pretty happy hooker!

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Diana and Bryan are in Paradise – i.e., Hawaii.  They discuss – along with Billy Sage – romance.  Michael Jonas, the inventor of the best-selling game An Enchanting Evening (www.TimeforTwo.com), along with his wife Barbara, knows everything about romance and being focused on your lover.  The game facilitates all of this with creative and fun questions!

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The fabulous Lou – Part 2!  Refer back to January 21st for topics – which were extended for this program.  Remember that Lou Paget evangelizes and demystifies the wonders of the flesh – in such an entertaining way!

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Dr. Ava Cadell and Dr. Diana discuss The Erogenous Zones, bringing the right woman to the bedroom, the sensuous art of kissing, the five senses to make sex great, the special places and how to stimulate those areas.  If you can’t get enough of Dr. Ava, go back in the archives to June 11th for a discussion on cheating and October 22nd on fantasies.  This March 11th, we will discuss advanced oral sex techniques!

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Dr. Robert Dunlap, Clinical Sexologist and award-winning Filmmaker (including Beyond Vanilla), and Dr. Diana discuss kinky sex and fetishes – including cross-dressing.  Dr. Dunlap offered a copy of his Happy Hooker DVD (see the 2/4/11 archived program for a description).  Dr. Robert quoted Kinsey as saying, “The only unnatural sex act is the one you can’t perform.”  So, of course, it must be consensual!

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Dr. Mark Schoen returns to discuss his groundbreaking website, his on-line sexual health films: www.SexSmartFilms.com.  In the free video viewing area, there is a preview of his documentary “Finding New Hope.”  Where the suicide ideation is about 41% in the transgender community, this documentary really will give hope to these folks.  Dr. Diana and Dr. Mark also talked about his sensate focus films, sex ed for kids and seniors, and the “Libido Lost” video about how anti-depressants interfere with sexual interest and desire.

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Dr. Diana’s guest co-host is Bryan Brewer and they interview Dr. Elizabeth Rae Larson, the Director of The Seattle Institute for Sex Therapy, Education and Research.  They discuss the BEYOND ROMANCE – an erotic enhancement curriculum for people in long-term committed relationships.  This is the Institute’s summation of two decades of creating interventions to help these sorts of couples.  The program’s premises and the basic skills for creating intimacy are outlined.  Part 2 will air April 8th.

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Dr. Linda De Villers is our guest.  Since her ground-breaking research of the sexual benefits of aerobic exercise, her work has been recognized nationally and internationally.  We discussed her book “LOVE SKILLS.”  What are love skills?  There are four: love talk (the ability to communicate about sexual matters); body love (the ability to love, accept and enjoy your body and that of your lover); love touch (the ability to give and receive affirmation through various forms of touch alone); and love play (the ability to be creative, playful – and occasionally sexually naughty – in and out of bed).

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Dr. Elizabeth Rae Larson, Part 2 …  Continuing the fascinating discussion of March 25th! (see above)

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David Steinberg, editor of EROTIC by NATURE.  This was his first venture into the world of sexual publishing, and it demonstrated that many people were interested in quality sexual imagery and literature that was entirely outside the world of commercial pornography.  David has continued to do couples photography, photography of people with disabilities being sexual, and his photos of transsexual women.  The latter are in his book DIVAS of SAN FRANCISCO.  David is unique and articulate!

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Dr. Leanna Wolfe integrates sexology and anthropology in her research, teaching and writing.  We talk about “co-wife competition” – jealously and transformation in polyamorous relationships in the U.S. now – as well as in Africa and New Guinea. You may participate in her surveys, including one on orgasms, if you go to www.AskDrLeanna.com.

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Dr. Ava Cadell, Dr. Diana, and guest co-host Bryan Brewer all discuss TANTRIC SEXUALITY – THE TANTRA VISION…HIGH SEX…What it is, and what it isn’t.  There are six essential tantric elements: breath, movement, muscle lock, sound, intention and attention.  We elaborate on each one.  For more, please go to www.LoveologyUniversity.com.  

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Co-Host Billy Sage is back!  Dr. Jack Morin is the guest.  He is the author of THE EROTIC MIND – a guide to deep understanding of your most important turn-ons  -- how they work, what they mean, how they can work against you, and what to do about it if they do. Some time ago Jack was even on the Howard Stern show – but this week we’ve got him!  He returns for Part 2 May 27th.

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Michael Castleman author of “GREAT SEX: A Man’s Guide to the Secret Principles of Total Body Sex.”  Premature ejaculation was discussed – among many other relevant subjects.  Visit his website: www.GreatSexAfter40.com for authoritative advice for sex at any age!  Mike can answer all your questions.

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Dr. Jack Morin, Part 2.  We discussed HOW EROS HEALS and his book “Anal Pleasure and Health” which has been described as the Bible of Anal Sanity!  There are so many benefits of positive sexuality, and we talk about them!

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Michael Jonas has lots of ideas for couples who want to keep romance and high sex alive!  He is the co-author of romantic games: www.timefortwo.com.  We discussed the seven steps to a perfect night of passion – including GIVE YOUR PARTNER THE GIFT OF TIME (can be porn for women!).

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Michael Castleman, Part 2.  Michael is articulate and informed.  His sexual advice is spot-on!  Tune-in for an amazing program!  Go back to May 20th for his website and additional information.

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Freddy and Eddy – aka Ian and Alicia who run the amazing website:  www.FreddyandEddy.com.  We talked about their journey as a married couple and how they started their website.  Best toys and best books, based on their website sales, were discussed.

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Beatnik baby boomer Joan Moran thinks it is time to get rid of all the old clichés about getting older. In her memoir Sixty, Sex, & Tango, she shares her engaging, humorous, and wildly entertaining personal journey as she provides a unique perspective on the trials and tribulations of being an active, sexy, intelligent woman in her sixties. Joan Moran is a former actress turned yoga and tango teacher who, through her own personal experiences, knows it is possible to age gracefully, find an authentic voice, pursue a passion, and discover a spiritual balanceall while living with great joy, sex, and romance. A self-proclaimed wandering Jewess, Moran shares how she found the courage to keep moving forward after the loss of love, learned to embrace her life with an open heart; and faced her fears with gratitude. Filled with honesty, laughter, and life lessons, the anecdotes in Sixty, Sex, & Tango will teach anyone how to live each day with dignity, grace, and humor. Sixty, Sex, & Tango has something to say about living life on ones own terms no matter how old or young you are. Tina Moss, psychological social worker, Los Angeles, California

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Guest today is JamYe WaXman, M.Ed. She has been dubbed "the nexxxt generation of sex educator" by Wired.com. WaXman, who has a Masters in sex education from Widener University, is a well-known and sought after educator and lecturer in the field of human sexuality and relationships as well as a sex writer, author, blogger, video host, producer and director.

She is the author of the award-winning book Getting Off: A Woman's Guide to Masturbation (Seal Press) as well as the author of Women Loving Women: Appreciating and Exploring the Beauty of Erotic Female Encounters. JamYe contributed to the book Naked Ambition: Women Who Are Changing Pornography and is currently hard at work on her third book, Sex: A Graphic Guide to Sensual Pleasure.

WaXman waxes poetic as a sex advice columnist for the LA Weekly's After Dark website, but has also had regular stints as the sex advice columnist for "Sex.Ed," appearing in Playgirl Magazine (from 2002-until January/February 2009) and "Hot Wax" in Steppin' Out Magazine (2002-2008). Her writing has appeared regularly on her own blog, JamYe WaXman: SeX Matters since 2003.

JamYe has collaborated with adult film pioneer Candida Royalle as a producer and co-writer and has created her own adult education and erotic films as well. Her three-part video series, Personal Touch, was put out by Adam and Eve Pictures in 2007, and her latest educational film, 101 Positions for Lovers (Sensual Couples) has received praise from places like Fleshbot and Paul Joannides, Psy.D, author of The Guide to Getting It On.

WaXman's resume is filled with other chapters too, like working as a consultant on HBO's the Katie Morgan Show and writing for magazines including Women's Health, Men's Health, Zink, AVN, Xbiz and online at RealitySandwich, Zug, and YourTango.

Waxman sex advice video's appear on Cherry TV's Fresh Advice, Sex Health Guru and FortheGirls and she posts her own "reality" videos to her YouTube channel. When she's not writing or playing on camera, WaXman loves to conduct workshops on sex education for Generation X and Y, and travels the country doing just that!

A former sex educator at the world-famous sex shop Babeland in NYC, JamYe has been quoted in publications including Self, Men's Health, Women's Health, Glamour, Cosmo, Jane, Heeb, Time Out New York and The NY Daily News.

Back in the day, WaXman was a radio producer for the likes of Joan Rivers, Alan Colmes, Joey Reynolds, Bob Berkowitz and Chaunce Hayden. She is a former TV Producer on Naked NY (Metro TV). JamYe is President of Feminists for Free Expression and these days she spends a good deal of time living the sunny life in Los Angeles, CA.

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Dr. Diana interviews Joe O’Neill with the help of guest co-host Bryan Brewer for a fascinating and lively discussion re: the pros and cons of online dating.

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Our guest was Veronica Monet, relationship coach, author, and sex educator. Her book Sex Secrets of Escorts: Tips from a Pro has sold over 15,000 copies! She went from dating married men for money as a high-end escort -- to helping rebirth marriages and other long-term relationships. She invites you to join her in The Shame Free Zone – her online radio program at www.sextalkradionetwork.com. But first, listen to our PRN provocative interview!

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VAGINISMUS is a problem for 1 to 7 percent of women worldwide. This program aims to shatter the silence and shame too often associated with this devastating condition. Peter Pacik, MD is a recognized pioneer in helping patients overcome severe vaginismus with his intravaginal injections of Botox together with his progressive dilation under anesthesia. Pacik’s treatment offers a real cure! Two of his many treated patients called in with positive, enthusiastic testimonials. There will be more information in Part 2 on September 16th. Please tune in!

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Dr. Patti Britton, former President of AASECT, and Dr. Diana discuss her new clinical sexologists' school: The Institute for Sexual Self Realization (http://www.theissr.com/). Her MEBES Method is reviewed. We discuss three movies as part of her examination of sex in the cinema.

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Veronica Vera and Dr. Diana are in the Progressive Radio Network studio for a provocative interview.  Miss Vera made history when she opened her Finishing School for Boys Who Want to Be Girlsin New York City in 1992.  The world’s first cross-dressing academy offers a much needed service to the vast transgender community.  “For every woman who burned her bra, there is a man ready to wear one,” proclaims Veronica, the former Wall Street trader, porn star, and always a sex-positive feminist activist.  She is the author of two books:  “Miss Vera’s Finishing School for Boys Who Want to be Girls – Tips, Tales, & Teachings from the Dean of the World’s First Cross-Dressing Academy” and “Miss Vera’s Cross-Dress for Success.”  Both are available on her websitewww.missvera.com or on Amazon.

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Lou Paget is a Certified Sex Educator and grassroots researcher who has produced lots of accurate practical information. She evangelizes and demystifies the wonders of the flesh! All of this is reflected in her five books. Dr. Diana and Lou discussed “His 8 Biggest Sex Secrets.” Please listen to find out what they are!

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Janice Epp, Ph.D. is a Professor at The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality where she teaches graduate students.  Dr. Janice also teaches undergraduates at Skyline College in the San Francisco Bay Area.  In addition to her private practice, she answers questions sent into www.MedHelp.org. – a forum for questions and support re relationships and sexuality. Dr. Diana and her guest discussed some of those – including the effects of masturbation, and how to navigate couple’s sex arguments.  The show ended with a lively discussion of the MOST IMPORTANT COMPONENTS of a RELATIONSHIP for SUCCESSFUL COUPLES.

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Brandon Maxwell, award winning filmmaker, and Dr. Diana discussed his DVD “The Maxwell Multiple Climax.”  Brandon’s premise is that men have the ability to develop the skill and therefore the confidence so that the sexual experience goes beyond rapid ejaculation and becomes discovering your partner instead of just performing for her.  He offers easy instructions from stem to sternum for getting in touch with your point of no return, etc.  On the program, he explained this with a myriad of methods.  In his DVD, there are fun and funny situations and animations.  Remember, anything worth doing is worth doing well…and we all know it’s worth doing!  www.ClimaxWell.com

Part 2 with Brandon will happen next week.  Tune in!

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Part 2 with Brandon Maxwell

This time Brandon and Dr. Diana talked about sexual communication skills.  There is a fine art of asking for what you want in bed without offending your lover’s ego, and sometimes this involves non-verbal communication.  Your ability to talk honestly and openly is key to having a passionate sex life.  Yes, the skills can be learned and improved, greatly enhancing your sexual satisfaction!

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Dr. Carol Ellison and Dr. Diana spoke about her book “Women’s Sexualities – Generations of Women Share Intimate Secrets of Sexual Self-Acceptance.”  This book is an antidote to some toxic cultural ideas about how sex should be.  In a time of measured and tabulated sexual proficiency, the many women who appear in “Women’s Sexualities” help all of us see that it’s actually more important to have a sexuality of your own pacing and making.  In this program, Part 1, Dr. Carol explained the path to sexual womanhood – including sexual discoveries and boundaries.  Next week, on December 6th, Part 2, we will discuss sexual partners, licit and illicit – as well as many erotic pleasures.

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Dr. Carol Ellison, Part 2.  In her book “Women’s Sexualities” Dr. Carol has a Chapter about Sexual Choreography: Creating Pleasure in Partnered Sex, and we discussed some ways in which erotic experiences might be enhanced.  Transitions and being in the moment are both important.  We looked at consensual nonmonogamy as well as affairs.  Her website is www.WomensSexualities.com.

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Dr. Mark Schoen returned to the program.  His documentary film “TRANS” is an up-close and very personal journey into the transgender world through memorable stories and the unusual lives of these remarkable people.  It will have its premiere soon, perhaps at the Berlin Film Festival.  Parts of Dr. Schoen’s film were recently shown on the ANDERSON COOPER TV show, and some of the persons appearing in the documentary appeared on that show – including Dr. Christine McGinn.  Go to www.TranstheMovie.com for more information.  We also discussed Mark’s very successful website www.SexSmartFilms.com – where there are 350 films, many of which are used in college classrooms.  Education is always the key to better understanding our sexuality; hence, LOVE, LUST & LAUGHTER!

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Brad Coates is a prominent Honolulu divorce attorney and founder of Coates and Frey, Hawaii’s largest family law firm.  His award winning book Divorce with Decency is now in its forthcoming 4th Edition.  The provocative topic for today’s program was “Is Marriage Dead?...Will Civil Unions and Other Changing Social Trends Mean the End of Conventional Marriage?”  Dr. Diana and her guest also discussed the internet’s exponentially exploding connectedness craze – as well as internet porn.  Is virtual sex replacing real time romance?

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Michael Jonas, co-creator of many romantic games, including Enchanting Evening and Romantic Sensations, is the guest for this Valentine’s Day show. (Visit www.timefortwo.com for details.) In the second half hour of the program, Dr. Diana and her man Bryan, while vacationing in paradise, share a bit of their love story. They have sure fire tips for other couples celebrating Valentine’s Day!

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Dr. Ronda Fenn joined Dr. Diana to talk about infidelity and exploring boundaries – areas of expertise and research for Dr. Ronda.  The road to infidelity is paved with unmet expectations about sex, love and marriage.  As for boundaries: identifying, pushing, sharing, negotiating, violating them – and deciding the deal breaker boundaries.  A stimulating hour of discussion!

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