Posted in DefaultTag on Apr 26th, 2016
Brad Coates, author of “DIVORCE with DECENCY”
knows a thing or two about romance. He has been a frequent guest on this
show and today we focused on what women want…female needs, desires, and
behavior in romantic relationships. His book states, “Women want to
hear ‘I love you and I understand.’ A man wants to hear ‘That makes
sense,’ indicating a linear thought process.” It is really about your
responsiveness to your partner’s emotions – and this responsiveness is
what makes a relationship feel fair. Underlying this element is respect.
Brad and I spoke about the trend that more single people are staying
that way, not getting married. In fact, many more women are not
re-marrying after a divorce. For those who do stay married and want
help, I often talk about couples putting more play back into their relationship. Brad and I expanded on this idea – and more. Listen, please! (www.divorcewithdecency.com)
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Posted in DefaultTag on Apr 12th, 2016
Role play and fantasy are two great ways to get closer to your partner.
For one, they involve a certain degree of trust because opening up about
a sexual fantasy can be scary. And with role play, you really have to
be comfortable with another person to pretend to be someone else. Carl
Frankel has a chapter in his book “Secrets of the Sex Masters” called “Fantasy, Role Play and Communication.” (www.CarlFrankel.com)
Carl’s position is that no are no mind crimes; this led to a discussion
about “bad” fantasies – as in unacceptable. Between a couple consent
is the rule! This is where communication is so important…You may feel
really vulnerable. Dr. Diana and Carl got off topic here and there: it
was fun! Improv is great for anyone to do…Don’t negate your partner. Say
Yes and. To quote Carl, “Fantasy and role play are
wonderful personal growth opportunities if you embrace them in that
spirit...Have fun with your fantasies and with the people you play with.
Giggling is encouraged…but optional.” I encourage you to listen to this
wise, informative program!
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Posted in DefaultTag on Apr 5th, 2016
Laura Corn is the author of nine books – all interactive versions of “101 Nights of Grrreat Sex – Secret Sealed Seductions for Loving Couples” – and have sold millions of copies (www.101Nights.com or www.LauraCorn.com ). The interview is fascinating! Hers is a book you don’t read…rather, you do,
and her erotic equation is: anticipation and creativity = great sex!
Laura also has a seductive APP through Apple. Dr. Diana and her guest
discussed what that means. We also talked about the number one sexual
complaint of couples; why couples may know how to spice up their
relationship and still don’t do it. SEDUCTION is the key to a long term great sex life. Listen to this show! Laura will return soon for a Part 2.
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