Archive for September 2014

Sexual abuse…sexual assault…these are difficult topics. Most of us have sexual wounds. For this program we have one of the best sexual experts – consider it a consultation with Dr. Stephanie Buehler (www.TheBuehlerInstitute.com). Dr. Stephanie and Dr. Diana discussed how sexual abuse affects adults; for example, at the time of the molestation a girl may feel pleasure (we are hard-wired for it) – but it is often mixed with other feelings such as disgust, anger, fear, and confusion. In therapy the client gets to sort out what happened, why they’re having the reactions they’re having, and what their triggers might be. If the victim can tell someone immediately what happened, if she is believed, and if the person she tells is supportive and affirms she did not cause the abuse – the outcome may be less traumatic. What about the partner? Most have deep feelings of outrage, shame, and guilt to work out. Sensual loveplay, especially massage, may be ideal before she is ready for lovemaking. For some men it may be difficult to stop at the sensual without becoming sexual. Appreciating sensuality apart from sexuality is a crucial ingredient of problem-free lovemaking! It is important to seek help as soon as possible (from a trained therapist) so that potential opportunities for pleasure and intimacy can be fulfilled!

 

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Dr. Dudley Danoff, world renowned urologist, founder and President of Cedars-Sinai Tower Urology in Los Angeles, returned to the program to further unzip the secrets  of male sexual health and power. His book PENIS POWER – The Ultimate Guide to Male Sexual Health – www.PenisPowerBook.com – banishes stress from the bedroom and makes sex fun again! Dr. Danoff and Dr. Diana took a long, hard look at the wonderful world of penises. They covered many topics – including sex and the brain; the superpotent man; ED in a younger man; PE and performance anxiety; the “suck job” and why it helps a man with arousal; prostate cancer and interventions post surgery for men still experiencing incontinence and impotence. Many facts of our lives can’t be changed – your penis is what it is…but, it’s never too late to change your sexual story. Take charge of it, using facts to create something you like. Re the latter, get Dr. Danoff’s book!

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